Did you just find out you’re pregnant, and you’re racking your brain trying to figure out how to tell your partner about the news? We know this situation isn’t where you thought you’d be right now in your life, but you are not alone.
All you can do now is be open and transparent with your partner about how you’re feeling about this unplanned pregnancy and get his insight if you feel safe to do so so you can both move forward with what’s next.
Remember That It’s Your Choice
At the end of the day, the final pregnancy decision is yours to make. It’s important to consider your partner’s input, especially if you have a close relationship. This decision for your future will impact both of you.
Get the options information you both need to make an informed decision and ask the hard questions, including how each pregnancy option could impact your future individually and together.
His Response May Surprise You
Though you may have a preconceived idea of how your partner may respond to an unplanned pregnancy, you may be taken by surprise by an unexpected response. It's best to go in open and honest and see how your partner takes it.
Do You Feel Unsafe?
If you have hesitations about sharing your unplanned pregnancy news with your partner due to safety concerns, you do not have to feel obligated to tell your partner right now.
If you sense that your safety is at risk, call the National Domestic Abuse Hotline immediately. A representative can help you with the resources you need to find safety.
Before Moving Forward
Whether you’re moving forward alone or together with your partner, know that sharing the initial news of pregnancy is one of the most difficult parts of the process.
Get clarity about all the vital details of your pregnancy and your options today at Positive Options. We offer free and confidential lab-quality pregnancy testing, limited OB ultrasounds, and pregnancy options information to women facing unplanned pregnancies. We care about every part of your journey.
You are not alone. Schedule an initial free appointment today.
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